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Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it really means when someone claims they “can’t” be in a relationship. Through the of a woman who gave everything to a man who wouldn’t commit, Matthew breaks down key insights that will help you regain clarity, self-worth, and the courage to move forward. Topics covered: The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about compatibility but about commitment. Unwilling Compromises vs. Real Obstacles – Understanding when someone is genuinely unable to be with you versus when they’re just unwilling to make sacrifices. Why Love is a Verb, Not Just Words – Actions define relationships, not promises or poetry. The Power of Perspective – If you were in their shoes, what would you be willing to do to make it work? How to Move Forward – Letting go of someone who won’t show up for you and reclaiming your time and emotional energy. For a deeper dive, check out the free "How To Heal From Heartbreak" Masterclass before it disappears!

Description: After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no ,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .”   What if . . .   • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No ” isn’t possible? • I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new episode, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no ” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup. ►► Struggling to Move On After a Breakup? Discover Practical Strategies to Rebuild Your Self-Worth & Regain Confidence. My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal from Heartbreak at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time. Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com. Main Topics Covered: Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbreak The different types of heartbreak: fresh, chronic, and long-term loneliness The power of self-comion and reconnecting with yourself Why no feels so hard—and how to stay strong The danger of dating as a distraction from heartbreak How to stop obsessing over your ex and wishing things had ended differently Dealing with regret and the fear that you lost “the one” How to recognize and avoid emotionally avoidant partners The key to moving forward and finding love again  

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear: How to ungive up on dating in 2025 Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truth The surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partner How to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t invested in you What it really means when a person pulls away after intimacy Whether it’s worth revisiting a past connection—or if it’s just a distraction The importance of living a full life outside of dating to naturally attract the right person. If you've ever found yourself overanalyzing someone’s behavior, questioning your worth after rejection, or wondering if you should give love another chance, this episode is for you. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss Matthew’s free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com.

There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.” In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use that knowledge to move on from heartbreak faster.   ---   ►► My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day? Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th: There’s too much pressure to be romantic. It’s all about money and gifts. Single people are made to feel like failures. It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble. But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes people make when approaching the day (and their whole dating life). Avoid these 5 traps, and you’ll be on your way to fulfilling love at any time of year . . . --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ►► My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are  rushing forward while not showing real consistency. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include: The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses A Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood? The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everything How our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviors The trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking action Why New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works) --- ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → MHWeekendRetreat.com ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good.   ---   ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug? Nope. While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence. They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun… This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to see you again. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

 In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities. Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up. The Truth About Social Media: How to take control of your digital habits for better mental health. Finding What Really Works for You: Discovering and sticking to your own personal "truths" that lead to a happier, more fulfilling life. ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it! These practical tips can help you instantly change your dating results.   ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”   Nobody wants to hear these words.   Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.   Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.   It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...   If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:   Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...   The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . . The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself.   (Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.)   --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration. The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs. Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma. Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory of your family or personal life. Recognizing the opportunities missed due to self-protective behaviors. Why fear of rejection and always "playing defense" hold us back. Practical tools for managing emotional triggers and replacing them with healthier responses.  ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again. ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

an you relate to this? You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example). But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want. It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was. If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos. Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning. The role of self-comion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days. Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations. Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.   ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive. ►► The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com